Insights

Since I am such a genius, heres some of my wisdom. Don't spread it in vain.

1. "A person doesn't want another person for who they are", I mean really, who gives a shit if someone has qualities and a good nature. That's all magazine column crap so that publishers have somewhere beside which to put their ads.

The feeling created by characteristics or attributes of someone is entirely the essence of relationship. For example, you might find someones' awesome sense of humor very relieving. That doesn't mean you necessarily want that person unless that is the only source of laughter/happiness or relaxation.

So the lesson here is that people are chasing their own emotions. Once a person or thing stops creating desired emotions, the use of that person or thing is effectively over. However the disposal of that person or thing might create other undesirable emotions and thus disposal might have to wait.

Desired emotions don't necessarily have to be all good. For instance, a person might have a belief that limits their ability to be happy. Maybe they think of all the suffering in the world and believe that being happy or having fun would mean negligence of world issues on their part. And some people consciously try to block out certain emotions because of their beliefs. Like people who don't want to be scared, don't watch scary movies.

Get it? People want to repeat emotions of love, hate, happiness, sadness, depression, excitement, etc. And they will chase whatever, things, events, people will help them experience those emotions repeatedly.